yesterday i met up with sweetheart Niv at TGIF for some much deserved margaritas...it's been like forever since i last saw her and i can still recall the days back when we were interning at Maxis...there has been a hell load of fun...end of story..

We got to talking and it feels just like old times, nothing's changed and there is nothing that we cant gossip about...it then occurred to me that having close friends do not mean we have to hangout every single day or every other week, you can spend years apart and when you do meet again, you feel as if you've just talked yesterday...that's the beauty of a relationship...

I invited her to join me on the UK expedition, knowing that she's been there and done that, know the whats-it, and whats-that in and out, it will help me to get settled down quicker if she's there...well sadly, she's had commitment...i've warned her so many times that when you get committed to something, you can might as well say good bye to your travelling aspiration, you aint going no where no more...

doesnt that happen to just about everyone i know? If it's not career, it's the i-have-better-things-to-do spouse, or kids issue or a million other things which involve being a working whore to pay off instalments for the houses/cars/creditcards/mistresses...

can life get any more typical than this?